2010-07-29 08:16:19
（轉貼）該和另一半分手了嗎？
（轉貼）你╱妳該結束一段感情的20個徵兆，順便練練英文吧
20 signs that you should end a relationship
Has your relationship run its course? Here`s how to tell
Relationships, like hot summers, often look better from a distance. Just as you forget how draining a muggy day can feel, you also forget how soul-destroying and lonely a relationship can feel when it`s not going well.
“So just end it,” right? It`s never as simple as that. Most of us have experienced that dilemma of not knowing whether to walk away from a relationship. You think that you`re being too picky, you worry that no-one else will love you this much, you don`t want to hurt someone you care about, you fear regretting it and not being able to win them back. You`ve stayed in relationships for those reasons, right? Yep, so have we.
But these alone aren`t good enough reasons to stay in a relationship that isn`t working. Ending a relationship can be heartbreaking, even if you`re dying to get away. The blissful future that you`d imagined when you first got together is now not going to happen. Thing is, is you`re unhappy, that blissful future wasn`t going to happen anyway.
If you’re experiencing a few of these 20 signs regularly, it may be time to move on. It will be difficult, but ultimately it`ll be the right thing for you both. Life is too short (and your partner`s life is too short) to waste valuable years on a pairing that`s going nowhere.
20 signs that you should end a relationship
Has your relationship run its course? Here`s how to tell
Relationships, like hot summers, often look better from a distance. Just as you forget how draining a muggy day can feel, you also forget how soul-destroying and lonely a relationship can feel when it`s not going well.
“So just end it,” right? It`s never as simple as that. Most of us have experienced that dilemma of not knowing whether to walk away from a relationship. You think that you`re being too picky, you worry that no-one else will love you this much, you don`t want to hurt someone you care about, you fear regretting it and not being able to win them back. You`ve stayed in relationships for those reasons, right? Yep, so have we.
But these alone aren`t good enough reasons to stay in a relationship that isn`t working. Ending a relationship can be heartbreaking, even if you`re dying to get away. The blissful future that you`d imagined when you first got together is now not going to happen. Thing is, is you`re unhappy, that blissful future wasn`t going to happen anyway.
If you’re experiencing a few of these 20 signs regularly, it may be time to move on. It will be difficult, but ultimately it`ll be the right thing for you both. Life is too short (and your partner`s life is too short) to waste valuable years on a pairing that`s going nowhere.
