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我終於了解-
你無法強迫別人愛你。
你所能做的,是使自己成為可愛的人。
此外,則不是你所能決定的。
I`ve learned -
that you cannot make someone love you.
All you can do is be someone who can be loved.
The rest is up to them.
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不論我如何付出關懷,
有些人就是無動於衷。
I`ve learned -
that no matter how much I care,
some people just don`t care back.
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建立起信任,需費時多年,
但只需幾秒就能摧毀它。
I`ve learned -
that it takes years to build up trust,
and only seconds to destroy it.
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重要的不是你一生中擁有了什麼東西,
而是你一生中擁有了什麼人。
I`ve learned -
that it`s not what you have in your life
but who you have in your life that counts.
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你可以藉由魅力達到目的,
但只能維持15分鐘。
此後,你最好要有些真材實料。
I`ve learned -
that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes.
After that, you`d better know something.
我終於了解-
你不應該拿自己和別人的最佳表現相比,
而應該和自己的最佳表現相比。
I`ve learned -
that you shouldn`t compare
yourself to the best others can do
but to the best you can do.
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重要的不是發生在人們身上的事,
而是他們對那事的反應。
I`ve learned -
that it`s not what happens to people
that`s important. It`s what they do about it.
我終於了解-
你在瞬間所做的事,
可以叫你心痛一輩子。
I`ve learned -
that you can do something in an instant
that will give you heartache for life.
我終於了解-
不論你切得多薄,
事情總是具有兩面。
I`ve learned -
that no matter how thin you slice it,
there are always two sides.
我終於了解-
需要經歷很長的時日,
才能使我成為我所欲成為的人。
I`ve learned -
that it`s taking me a long time
to become the person I wan