<blockquote style="ber-left: #999 2px solid; margin: 1em 3em; padding-left: 1em; color: #999">H.Ayaka&nbsp;的話:&nbsp;<br />
還停留在舊思想的傳統長輩,認為女孩以後嫁出去是別人家的,所以不用知道太多。<br />
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<span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); font-family: Georgia, Times, &quot;Times New Roman&quot;, serif; font-style: italic; line-height: 20.8px;">白羊女&nbsp;的話:&nbsp;</span><br style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); font-family: Georgia, Times, &quot;Times New Roman&quot;, serif; font-style: italic; line-height: 20.8px;" />
<span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); font-family: Georgia, Times, &quot;Times New Roman&quot;, serif; font-style: italic; line-height: 20.8px;">照老一輩(古人)想法<strong>,女兒不能掃墓地~~祖宗宗祠是男生的事,&nbsp;</strong></span><span style="color:#FF0000;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times, &quot;Times New Roman&quot;, serif; font-style: italic; line-height: 20.8px;">(原來如此)</span></span><br style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); font-family: Georgia, Times, &quot;Times New Roman&quot;, serif; font-style: italic; line-height: 20.8px;" />
<span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); font-family: Georgia, Times, &quot;Times New Roman&quot;, serif; font-style: italic; line-height: 20.8px;">所以樓主遇到了老思想的人.....(女兒是外人的想法.)</span><br style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); font-family: Georgia, Times, &quot;Times New Roman&quot;, serif; font-style: italic; line-height: 20.8px;" />
<span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); font-family: Georgia, Times, &quot;Times New Roman&quot;, serif; font-style: italic; line-height: 20.8px;">以前我工作上的同事(師父)趕在父親去逝前嫁人沖喜,</span><br style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); font-family: Georgia, Times, &quot;Times New Roman&quot;, serif; font-style: italic; line-height: 20.8px;" />
<span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); font-family: Georgia, Times, &quot;Times New Roman&quot;, serif; font-style: italic; line-height: 20.8px;">但父親過逝對年(周年)想回娘家拜父親,她奶奶不準許她回來祭祀父親,</span><br style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); font-family: Georgia, Times, &quot;Times New Roman&quot;, serif; font-style: italic; line-height: 20.8px;" />
<span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); font-family: Georgia, Times, &quot;Times New Roman&quot;, serif; font-style: italic; line-height: 20.8px;">說不要她把她哥哥的福氣得去~~我師父很生氣又難過氣她奶奶的思想古板,</span><br style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); font-family: Georgia, Times, &quot;Times New Roman&quot;, serif; font-style: italic; line-height: 20.8px;" />
<span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); font-family: Georgia, Times, &quot;Times New Roman&quot;, serif; font-style: italic; line-height: 20.8px;">年輕時聽到這種事就覺得不可思議.......</span></blockquote>
的確是,<br />
因為後來司機大哥有問到怎麼沒有&quot;招&quot; 、跟母姓之類的&hellip;&hellip;<br />
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只是家中完全沒有重男輕女的問題,(就都全女生了&hellip;&hellip;)<br />
有時候自己不太會往這方面想,只是覺得很奇怪,(一直都覺得這世界好奇怪~唉~)<br />
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之前有一次遇到沒見過的堂伯還堂叔的,<br />
知道家中都女生時,<br />
他突然很緊張說:怎麼這樣,以後沒人拜&hellip;&hellip;<br />
那當下,覺得當個女生好罪大惡極!<br />
也感覺到,當年我阿母的壓力有多恐怖~<br />
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