<blockquote style="margin: 1em 3em; color: rgb(153, 153, 153); border-left-width: 2px; border-left-color: rgb(153, 153, 153); padding-left: 1em; font-family: arial, 新細明體; font-size: 15px; font-style: normal; letter-spacing: 0.75px; line-height: 22px;"><span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); font-family: arial, 新細明體; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.75px; line-height: 22px;">loverlips 的話:&nbsp;</span><br />
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lma&nbsp;的話:&nbsp;<br />
<span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: sans-serif, Arial, Verdana, 'Trebuchet MS';">我倒覺得以前的人比較宿命,覺得沒結婚就是什麼很嚴重的事</span><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: sans-serif, Arial, Verdana, 'Trebuchet MS';" />
<span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: sans-serif, Arial, Verdana, 'Trebuchet MS';">前幾天才跟個長輩討論這方面的事,那個長輩直說我病的很嚴重&nbsp;</span><img alt="" height="37" src="http://forum.fashionguide.com.tw/ckeditor/plugins/smiley/images/fg/fgicon_29.gif" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: sans-serif, Arial, Verdana, 'Trebuchet MS';" title="" width="38" /><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: sans-serif, Arial, Verdana, 'Trebuchet MS';" />
<span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: sans-serif, Arial, Verdana, 'Trebuchet MS';">我說現代的人比較有自我想法,就會被長輩說是腦袋有問題</span><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: sans-serif, Arial, Verdana, 'Trebuchet MS';" />
<span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: sans-serif, Arial, Verdana, 'Trebuchet MS';">我反問那個長輩,結婚是為了自己還是為了別人?</span><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: sans-serif, Arial, Verdana, 'Trebuchet MS';" />
<span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: sans-serif, Arial, Verdana, 'Trebuchet MS';">因為結婚而結婚,或者因為年紀大了,隨便找個對象去結婚,這樣就對嗎?</span><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: sans-serif, Arial, Verdana, 'Trebuchet MS';" />
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<span style="color: rgb(85, 85, 85); font-family: arial, 新細明體; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.75px; line-height: 22px;">長輩也未免太過言重了吧?</span><br style="color: rgb(85, 85, 85); font-family: arial, 新細明體; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.75px; line-height: 22px;" />
<span style="color: rgb(85, 85, 85); font-family: arial, 新細明體; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.75px; line-height: 22px;">現在資訊發達又多元</span><br style="color: rgb(85, 85, 85); font-family: arial, 新細明體; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.75px; line-height: 22px;" />
<span style="color: rgb(85, 85, 85); font-family: arial, 新細明體; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.75px; line-height: 22px;">我們吸收的資訊越多</span><br style="color: rgb(85, 85, 85); font-family: arial, 新細明體; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.75px; line-height: 22px;" />
<span style="color: rgb(85, 85, 85); font-family: arial, 新細明體; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.75px; line-height: 22px;">越可以統整出我們自己的想法</span><br style="color: rgb(85, 85, 85); font-family: arial, 新細明體; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.75px; line-height: 22px;" />
<span style="color: rgb(85, 85, 85); font-family: arial, 新細明體; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.75px; line-height: 22px;">沒甚麼不好<br />
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哈,那位長輩還很激動的狠狠教訓了我一下<br />
我倒是很平靜的回她,當為了結婚而結婚的父母,之後因為雙方感情不好,而生出來的小孩變成社會問題時,這就是你們所想看到的嗎?<br />
社會在改變,無論年紀老幼,思想和觀念也要跟著改變<br />
只是無論怎麼改變,我覺得還是自己要懂得思考,而不是一昧的跟著誰或傳統在走</span><br />
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